Browse Storytellers

 
  This Story has been written by Jenoa Briar-Bonpane  
  Read more Storyteller Stories  

Barbara's Story

  CHAPTERS
My Entire Life
   
   
  I've been featured!
   
  CATEGORIES
Categories not defined yet
   
 

Featured Story

It Has Been A Rough Year

I am adding this additional chapter to my introduction, because after I initially wrote the introduction, it was very difficult to come back to it and try to make sense of all that I have experienced through the various stages of my life and the trials that I have endured or overcome.  I wish ...


[more]



The Birth of Charles Leonard Wiggins

The story has already been written for awhile on my blog "From the heart of Praise, Prayer and Perseverance. 0; Here is a link to that posting, Below are the pictures of the blessed event.   http://fromthehea rt-dotwigg.blogsp ot.com/2008/03/an other-2-prayer-re quest-answered.ht ml


[more]

Browse for more stories

Barbara Schantz's Story > Storyteller Feature

Featuring: Barbara Schantz
Written by: Jenoa Briar-Bonpane
 

"Can’t Keep this Mama Down" 


Comments: 4 Published on: Feb 08, 2009 Views: 28,614

Category: Inspirational

 

Multiple sclerosis tries to slow Barbara Schants down, but she can’t. With 2 sets of twins under the age of 5 to parent and a business to run, most days her MS barely makes it on the radar.

 

Barbara and her husband had a difficult time conceiving a child. Year after year, Barbara hoped in vain that she would have a baby. “It was tough because all of my other friends were having kids – most were friends since middle school. I was the last of the 5 old friends…I was trying to be supportive and go to all the baby showers but it was tough.,” Barbara remembers.

 

After several years of trying, they turned to fertility treatments. 3 rounds of intervention were unsuccessful and the outlook was bleak. They tried again for a fourth and final time and were thrilled to discover it had worked and they were expecting. After getting the news that Barbara was pregnant with twins, they felt “overwhelmed but happy.”

 

In the blurry months of new parenthood that followed the birth of her daughters, Barbara didn’t get out much. When the twins were nearing 6 months old, Barbara found herself happily able to leave the house and venture out a bit more. She noticed that her feet were oddly tingly. Since she’d rarely left the house for all those months, she guessed and hoped it was simply her body’s readjustment to wearing shoes and walking more. 

 

Instead of improving with time as she’d expected, Barbara’s symptoms quickly worsened and deep fatigue set in. She felt so weak she couldn’t even pick up her babies. Her mom came to stay and help and they scheduled an appointment with a doctor to figure out what was going on.  With the aid of her mother, Barbara drove 85 miles to see a specialist. She waited for 2 hours in the lobby and then was given a 5-minute exam with a provider who ordered an MRI and sent her home. Frustrated, furious, and a bit afraid, Barbara thought “NO, you don’t do this to a mom of 6 month old twins who has something going wrong with her body!”

 

Her search for help and answers continued. Barbara went the emergency room one night, desperate for relief. She found none.  Finally, she found the right doctor. He spent an hour with her and diagnosed her with MS.

 

“It was a rush of emotions – [I thought] at least we know what it is but then what it is, is not so bad. It doesn’t usually kill people but then your quality of life varies,” says Barbara who has an uncle with MS who is quite debilitated, incontinent and in a wheelchair. She tries not to think about his condition too much.

 

She was put on medication that she injects herself every other day. Her husband has to help her keep track of the injections, which sometimes are forgotten or missed in the joyful chaos of a houseful of small children.  

 

Though Barbara knew that pregnancy almost always triggers a relapse of MS symptoms, she and her husband wanted another child. Fertility treatments worked again and they were delighted to be pregnant for the second time – once again, with twins. When her oldest children were 3 years old, Barbara gave birth to her second set of twins. She thinks the second set of twins is “easier because we’ve been parents before… this time we are so much more laid back about everything.”

 

Since her diagnosis, Barbara has had just on relapse. During the relapse, Barbara again had extreme fatigue. Steroid infusions helped her feel better but made it impossible for her to sleep for nearly a week. Hyper-energetic from the steroids, Barbara says she got a lot of cleaning done that week.

 

Barbara is so busy raising her kids, Greta, Cora, Franklin, and Carlton that she rarely has time to think about the MS. She does her best to take her medication, get an MRI every so often, adjust to the changes in her balance and sensation, and try not to worry about how her health will be down the road.

 

Somehow, in the midst of it all, Barbara invented and patented a bowl called the Baby Dipper out of frustration bowls that wouldn’t stay put when she was trying to juggle and feed multiple children at once. She designed a product that would simplify her own life and, she hopes, the lives of other parents.

 

What helps Barbara manage the stress of mothering 4 small children, living with MS, and running a business? Barbara loves to travel and look at architecture. Whenever she can, she joins her husband on his frequent business trips and enjoys a change of scenery.

 

 

 
Thank you Barbara, for sharing your Story with us!

~~~


Our Stories and pictures are the sole copyright of their Authors and may not be reprinted or used without their permission.
© 2009 by
Jenoa Briar-Bonpane 
and Story of My Life®
 

 

 



Email this Story

Read more Storytellers Stories   |   Read more of Barbara's Stories

Share/Save/Bookmark

Comments

Help

You must be registered to leave comments. Register here! It's free!

Already a member? Login here



Member Since
Jan 2009
Sam Henderson said:
posted on Feb 09, 2009
You go Barbara!

My kids are a bit older now but oh those days of the spoon - what a great idea!!! I love that you followed your dream and made it from there :) (even with MS is even more commendable to your spirit!)


Member Since
Apr 2008
Argento Saliente said:
posted on Feb 11, 2009
MS

My friend has MS too. Some days are very hard for her. I'm so glad you shared this as I will give her this story of great inspiration!


Member Since
Feb 2009
MaryHelen Cuellar said:
posted on Feb 15, 2009
In The Same Family

Barb and I are in the "same family"; I have had Myasthenia Gravis for 30 years which is in the 'family' of MS; raised kids, worked, got a graduate degree; started a business, etc.  BUT I never had one, much less 2 sets of twins under the age of 5; Kudos to you for not giving in, and giving up.


Member Since
Aug 2008
Adara Bernstein said:
posted on Feb 19, 2009
Barbara

(and MaryHelen) my heart goes out to you for struggling to "do it all" with chronic pain. You probably didn't complain either, bless your hearts. You sound WONDERFUL.....